Cagayan de Oro

Cagayan de Oro Sex Guide advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, sex shops, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Cagayan de Oro, Philippines.

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Sex Scene and Prostitution

The Philippines is a poor country. The people are nice, warm, friendly, and many are desperately poor. Thus they flock to the tourist places and do what they have to do, which is prostitution and tourist trapping.

The first advantage to coming to the Philippines is that you don't need to know a second language to get around. Therefore most of the girls in the bars speak English. They don't always know it well and sometimes you will have to slow down a little for a new girl to understand you. But before too long they will become quite fluent.

Prostitution in the Philippines is illegal. It is a serious crime with penalties ranging up to life imprisonment for those involved in trafficking. It is covered by the Anti-Trafficking in Persons Act of 2003. Prostitution is sometimes illegally available through brothels (also known as casa), bars, karaoke bars (also known as KTVs), massage parlors, street walkers, and escort services.

Sex tourism trade is alive and well in Philippines. There are approximately 500,000 prostitutes who masquerade as bar girls in the Philippines, and most clients are businessmen from East Asia or Western countries. Filipinos tend to be very tolerant of diverse lifestyles, which may be one reason why prostitution and sex tourism have flourished in the Philippines. One of the most shocking things about sex tourism in the Philippines is the sheer volume of it – a whopping 40-60% of tourists who visit the Philippines are estimated to have traveled to the Philippines for sex tourism alone.

Red Light Districts

Best Red-light district areas in Philippines can be found from Angeles City, Subic, Manila and Cebu. Non-of these red light areas have Window prostitution, but most have a certain area where most of the street and bar prostitution happens.

Prostitutes and Sex Workers

There are many different ways to get laid in the Philippines. Most pedicab or tricycle drivers know where to find prostitution and will even drive you there for a low price. Short drive will only cost you a $US 1-2.

Most well known spots to find girls go-go bars and KTV´s. If you have your own place, you can always ask a pedicab driver to deliver a whore to your room and this will cost $US 20-50 depending on how long she stays, what she looks and where you are staying. If you want a girl in Philippines for the entire trip, you simply look after her and give her some cash per day and you have a true GFE. Other common way to get sex in Philippines is to go to a nightclub. There are always many sexy girls. Just go talk to them and invite them to your place. This way you do not even need to pay everytime.

Tipping Guide

  • Waitress in a bar: 5-10% or 10 peso each drink if paying individually. Do not tip is she orders a double ladies drink without specifying single or double. Do not tip is she pads your check. Always double check your receipts to make sure she is not overcharging.
  • Mamasan: Its not customary to tip the mamasan. But if she was helpful in picking out a girl for you, slide her a 50 peso note. However it is entirely up to you.
  • Bargirl (short time): 300-400 peso. 400-500 for great service.
  • Bargirl (long time): 400-500 peso. 700-1000 on a rare occasion for spectacular service.
  • Bargirl (back room blowjob): 200 peso
  • Waitress in restaurant: 5-10%
  • Massage (no happy ending): 100 peso
  • Massage (happy ending): 300 peso
  • Massage (full service): 400-500 peso
  • Hotel doormen: Nothing if you are only staying at the hotel for a day or two. 20 peso a week if he is courteous and opens the door for you.
  • Hotel bellboy: 20 peso if he carries your heavy luggage and shows you the room.
  • Hotel maid: 50 peso a day
  • Trike driver: Nothing.

Street Hookers

You can find street prostitutes in Philippines from couple different areas. Usually the street prostitution hot spots are the streets near the downtown clubs. You can really notice the streetwalkers once you leave the night club at night and street girls start selling you their services. Price for a short time is usually around 1000 peso (US$22) or $1500-2000 pesos (US$ 34-45).

There are usually always some street whores in the suburbs of the city and usually from these girls you can get much better deals, such as 500 peso (US$ 11) for a short-time. Quality is never nothing like in the city centre and many of these girls do not even carry condoms. So, be careful.

Freelancers

Freelancers girls in Philippines can be a good deal, because you do not have to pay bar fines or other extras. Best places to pick up freelancer girls are shopping centers, cafes and nightclubs. Price for all night with freelancer is around $2000 pesos (US$45). Make sure you hide your valuables if you take girls to your place.

Strip Clubs & Lap Dance

Some of the strip bars in Philippines have a classier atmosphere, and these premises are known as gentlemen’s clubs. Gentlemen´sClubs are usually more expensive than basic nude bars. Once you enter either a strip bar or a gentlemen´s club, one of the girls will come to your table and ask if you buy her a drink. Ladies drinks are always more expensive, so make sure you ask for the drink price before buying. Once the stripper has seen that you can afford her for the night, she will most likely ask you up front if you want to spend a night with her. A girl from the strip clubs or gentlemen´s clubs will cost around US $40-80 per night.

Go Go Bars

Go Go bars in the Philippines aren't as wild as Go Go Bars in Thailand. You can still find many pretty ladies dancing in on the tables, stages or in cage. If you like what you see, you could always ask for her to leave with you but you will have to pay the bar a fine. Bar fine in Philippines is around 1000 to 3000 pesos (US $23-$69). Top of that you need to pay for the girl. Make sure you negotiate everything clearly before heading to your place. Example; you need to know if you are paying for a Short time or long time and what services you get.

Good Bars to Visit in CDO

  • Syren´s, (before: Spooks Bar), Tiano-Pacana Sts. Cagayan de Oro city 9000, Philippines (Tel:+63 88 852 4021)
3000 pesos bar fine. Lots of pretty girls. If you take a girl after her shift is over, there is no bar fine. 1000-1500 pesos should be enough for the girl at the morning. Just tell the girl where you are staying. Syrens closes between 12 and 2am depending on the day and/or how many customers there are. There are many other bars just like Syrens in CDO. All seem to do nude shows at some part of the evening but beware some like to charge you 100 to 150 cover charge just for going in so ask first. Syrens doesn't charge cover charge. Usually around 20 ladies on the stage. Food is also great at Syren´s.
  • Kingston Lodge, Off Masterson Avenue, Upper Canitoan, Cagayan de Oro, 9000, Philippines (Tel:+63 88 858 5696)
  • Divisoria
  • Mig and Mugs
  • Marvin´s Room
  • Gion
  • Dark Room
  • Strip Hub

Bar Girls

Bars in Philippines usually open at around 21:00 on weekdays, but during the weekends, they can go on as early as 18:00. Picking out a decent bar is crucial to whether you’re going to have a good night or not.

The look of the building tells you a lot about what kinds of bar girls you’ll meet there and the rates/prices. Another tip is to check out the other customers. Are you the only foreigner in there? If yes, then find another place because if you’re the only foreigner, you’re the only one they’re going to milk money from. It can get expensive.

When going to bars, it is best to remove any jewelry or watches. Valuables are likely to be ‘misplaced’ and you’ll probably never find them again. Now, if the place looks good (usually newer buildings with tarpaulins printed with pictures of their attractive bar girls), then be ready with some cash.

Ladies Drinks usually cost Php250-300, but some bars even go higher than that. There are cheaper options that charge only Php175. Bring extra cash, as some bars would ask you to buy ladies’ drinks every 30 minutes. Be wary of cheap looking and sleazy bars. They water down drinks, especially the ones in towers. It’s safer to get drinks in bottles.

The usual bar fine is around Php2,500-3,000 – yes, it is really that expensive. Some bars price even higher than that. But sometimes, if you buy a set of lady drinks – usually about 10 drinks – the bar fine is waived. The cheaper locations charge around Php1,000 for bar fines.

For those guys that fall in love with a bar girls: later you might be one of those 200 men that she is chatting with via messenger in internet cafe. It's almost always just a business for her to make some money or to find someone to take her to western country.

KTV´s

Karaoke Television Bars are quite popular in Philippines, but there are not as many adults only KTV´s as there is in China. Cover charge is usually 500 pesos (US$ 11) per person for 1-2 hours. Girls company costs around 250 - 500 pesos for the hour. Ladies drinks are always more expensive than regular drinks and sometimes they can cost as much as 500 pesos.

Brothels

Most of the ||Brothel|brothel]] business in Philippines happens in massage parlors, there are no places where you can clearly find a menu that says something like "Sex 2000 pesos" or Blow-job 1000 pesos. You have to always negotiate everything with a mamasan or with a girl who gives you the massage. Some of the strip bars do have a backroom where you can have sex.

Erotic Massage Parlors

You can find massage parlors in almost every area in Philippines. Massage business in Philippines is not as wild as it is in Thailand, so you need to know that not every massage salon offers Erotic massage. Some of the massage places are just for the regular massage or body cleaning. But usually even at these "Good" massage salons it is quite easy to pick up a girl. Just talk her during the massage and ask her for a date after her shift ends,

At Erotic massage parlours you will usually get an option to pick your girl. First you pay and then you will be directed to your room. If you are taking a shower before the massage, do not leave your valuables in the room, just keep them with you all the time. Lingam Massage is one of the best massages you can get in Philippines and it is very Erotic massage. At most Erotic massage parlors, the Happy Ending is included to the price. Usually Erotic massage (1 hour body to body massage and a handjob) will cost around 1200-2000 pesos ($US 27-45). It is polite to leave a small tip to the girl if you were happy with the service. Most of the times the masseus will also ask if you want extra services, such as blow-job or sex. Extra services cost around 1000-2000 pesos ($US 25-45).

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Dating

Dating in Cagayan de Oro can be a bit tricky due to cultural differences, so your best bet is to sign up for a dating site before your trip so you can meet a few locals ahead of time. AdultFriendFinder.com lets you meet local members in Cagayan de Oro and get to know them on a personal basis before you arrive. Take advantage of site features like live chat and member to member webcams so you can begin flirting before arranging a face-to-face meeting. Since your time in Cagayan de Oro may be limited, get to know each other’s desires beforehand, so that when you meet you can start having some real fun.

How to find Sugar Babies & Sugar Daddies

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Swinger Clubs and BDSM

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Transsexuals / Shemales

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There are plenty of beautiful t-girls in Philippines. At night time you can see ladyboy prostitutes on the streets and during the the daytime you can find ladyboy freelancers from the malls. Price for a short time with a t-girl is around 1000-1500 pesos and all night is around 1500-2500 pesos. However if you are good looking or you can negotiate, the price will quickly drop. Easiest way to make price drop is to act like you are not interested. Remember to be careful with ladyboys in Philippines, because some of them have a bad habit to steal items or money from customers. However, most likely if everything goes well, you can have an amazing time with trans-girls in Philippines. Most of them are very passable and they look like a gorgeous supermodels and they act very feminine.

Transgirls you meet online have other price rules, most of these ladies see you as their future boyfriend and will fuck with you for free. As long as you take care of them and in some cases their family. It`s up to you what will be the game plan with these t-girls, but make sure you do have one because as playful and as kind as these trannies re when you meet them and are fucking them. As dangerous they can become if they see that your just playing with them and they have more to lose then to win with you, then they can become lethal weapons and can inflict severe injury`s to you. So make sure that she know that you are not planning to go in to no relationship with her no matter what! Depending on what tactics you use and will not ask you at the first instant for no money

Gay and Lesbian

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LGBT citizens may face different social attitudes and legal challenges than heterosexual citizens. Tolerance for LGBT people has increased over the years due to greater education about sexual orientation and gender identity issues and the growing visibility and political activism of the LGBT community. Same-sex marriages are not legally recognized and the LGBT community is not protected by any civil rights laws.

The vast majority of Filipinos – 73% – declared that “society should accept homosexuality”, according to findings from “The global divide on homosexuality” survey by the nonpartisan Pew Research Center. The survey, published in 2013, covered 7 countries from the Asia-Pacific region: Philippines, South Korea, China, Malaysia, Indonesia and Pakistan (listed in order from most to least gay-friendly).

Some 80% of Filipinos are Catholic and they seem to be exceptionally tolerant towards gay people - despite Pew’s conclusion from the same survey that acceptance of homosexuality diminishes in places where religion has a central place in people’s lives.

Compared to the other Asian countries in the survey, Philippines indeed stood out as an oasis of tolerance: in China only 21 percent of people agreed that society should accept homosexuality, while just 9 percent of Malaysians and 3 percent of Indonesians shared this view.

A few years ago CNN even listed the Philippines - a country “full of gorgeous gay-friendly beaches and welcoming gay bars” - as one of few Asia’s top travel spots for gay tourists.

When asked whether homosexuality was morally acceptable, nearly two-thirds (65 percent) of Filipinos surveyed said homosexuality was immoral, while only a quarter found it morally acceptable and the remaining 10 percent said it had nothing to do with morals.

Interestingly, moral acceptance of homosexuality in the Philippines, though fairly low at 25 percent, was still higher when compared to China (13 percent), Malaysia (4 percent) and Indonesia (3 percent).

Although same-sex activity is not criminalised in the Philippines, there are no laws in place to protect gay people from discrimination.

Sexual Services for Women

There are lots of male prostitutes in Philippines, but most of the male hookers only serve men. However there is lots of tourism in Philippines and it should be very easy for women to get sex from other tourists.

Sex Shops and Adult Stores

If you don’t feel like visiting or cannot find any local sex shops in Cagayan de Oro, you can easily order adult products from Online Sex Shop.

Condoms are widely available in Philippines in corner stores and pharmacies. If you need Viagra, you need to get a prescription because pharmacies will require that. Porn DVD´s are usually sold on the street by street vendors and price is about 50-100 (US$ 1.20-2.20) peso per dvd.

Escort Services & Agencies

Sleeping

In Philippines, it is very easy to bring guests to your room at the bigger cities. You might have trouble bringing girls to your room at smaller cities, but most of the time you can always pay a small amount of money to the security and you should have no trouble bringing guests.

VIP Hotel (Don Apolinar Velez Street, Cagayan de Oro, 9000 Misamis Oriental, Philippines) is just across the road from Spooks. Only about 2 min walk.

Stay Safe

Just around the main square of Cagayan de Oro, beware of pick pockets especially over the weekend. There are big crowds and its a known problem.

Travel Warning WARNING: A heavy conflict is going on in the Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao (Basilan, Lanao Del Sur, Maguindanao, Sulu and Tawi-Tawi) between Muslim militias and the Philippine government. In 2009 this region was declared the world's most hazardous area for journalists by the Committee to Protect Journalists, with 18 reporters dead in a massacre that claimed the lives of almost 60 people. Travelling to this region is dangerous and strongly discouraged. If it is necessary to visit, inform your embassy, remain cautious at all times and avoid public gatherings.

Prostitution and drugs

Prostitution is thriving but officially illegal in the Philippines, although hostess bars, massage parlors and other opportunities abound which offer this service. EDSA and Makati in Metro Manila, and Angeles City are known hot spots for these activities. The age of consent is 18. Marijuana and shabu (crystal methamphetamine) are widely used in the country however they are also Illegal and Penalties are very harsh, you might very well get long jail terms and get deported back to your country.

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