Dating a Girl from The Third World Country
Every year thousands of male tourists fall in love with a girl from the third world country. Most of these traveling men are single but there are also a huge percentage of married men who even have children waiting at home.
Third World Countries
- Most of the African countries are considered as 3rd world countries.
- Some parts of Eastern Europe are considered as third world.
Tips and Warnings
Here are some tips and warnings if you are dating a foreign girl from the third world country. Remember that many of the girls can be very tricky and you wouldn't possibly be the first one that they are making use of. Some men get blinded by the beauty and "innocence" of the girls. There are always possibilities to find a true love from anywhere in the world but you definitely should make some rational thinking before letting your new girlfriend too close to your western lifestyle. Scamming happens especially for older and not good-looking western guys who might lose their rational thinking when meeting a pretty girl who seems to like them.
Many women are searching only for better life quality and money from unsuspecting men. Behaving of the girls totally depends of the culture where the girls are from. For example women from Asia can behave very differently than women from Latin America.
- She often talks about a sick child or relative.
- She would only leave her life of a strip dancer, hooker or "bar maid", if she had the money to go back to school.
- She asks for money like a wife when she's only a fiancee or girlfriend.
- She has children and she asks you for help with them, you have to wonder where's the dad? And if he's still alive. Why did she give this man more than one child. Well this equals bad judgement. This is a bad indicator.
- She has a circle of friends and relatives that are unfaithful on their boyfriends. Guess what. You "girlfriend" is probably one of them.
- You find out you are NOT her first gringo/farang/western/other boyfriend.
- She asks you for money or a gift and it's not the amount or the quality she asked for. If she's less than overjoyed. She's an ingrate and you've learned a lesson VERY cheaply.
- She suggests marriage within the first 3-5 months.
- If you suggest marriage and she wants to stay in the country.
- She asks to buy property under both names.
- Her friends are all hooked up with foreign boyfriends. She's one of the gold diggers herself.
- If you have access to her email, online profile or dating service account because she "trusts you" and to prove that she has no secrets or anything to hide. Think again. She has more than one profile.
- If you always pay the bill for food or vacations or whatever and does not make some attempt to pick up the bill once in a while. She's using you. It doesn't matter how poor a person is. Dignity has no price. You are not a fucking wallet.
- If you invite her out to a meal and she brings relatives or a friend and you pick up the tab and she makes no effort to have these deadbeats put in something in the pot to pay the bill. You are totally used. And they are laughing their asses off at your expense.
- She does or go to different places when you're in your own country. Ask yourself why she didn't do or go to those places when you were there.
- You constantly call to see if she's home on the weekends and if she's not there you become suspicious. You are in an unhealthy relationship and she is probably seeing someone else at the same time.
- If you don't speak the language and have locals vouch for your woman.
- If she's way younger than you and you're less than attractive, out of shape and bald. She doesn't love you because you're one of the nice ones and not like those local boring men that don't know how to treat a lady. In other words. Have no money. Be a realist man. If she's a piece of ass. You nail it. You don't marry it. She's not loving your bald head. She's loving your currency and passport.
- She's always hanging out with a male cousin (this happens especially in Latin America). It's not a cousin. It's a boyfriend.
Do NOT make these mistakes
- Don't ever help your foreign girlfriend get a tourist, student or work visa.
- Never send any cash for her if you are in your homeland. They have many stories to break your heart. For example a little brother had got to an accident and needs hospital care etc.
- Never buy anything valuable for her name. There are hundreds of stories from Thailand where western guy have bought a house in the name of the local girlfriend (it's difficult to own a land in Thailand if you are a foreigner). After a while the "girlfriend's" real boyfriend comes and throw you out of the house you have paid and you cannot do anything about it. Some girls have several western guys sending money to them every month and the unsuspecting guys of course think that they are the only "boyfriend".
- Always use protection when having sex. First of all are sexual transmitted diseases. Second is that if she gets pregnant by accident she might want to keep the baby thinking about the better future even if you wouldn't be ready for that. Also in some countries the religion completely bans an option of making an abortion.
Tips how to find out what your foreign girlfriend really thinks about you
- You can try to learn little bit the girl's language without her knowing about it. Then you can listen how she speaks about you to her friends and family.
- You can give an appearance of yourself that actually you really are not a wealthy person at all. Then you will see if the girl is still interested in you or does she continue hunting for a rich man.
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