Wellington Sex Guide advises where to find sex, working girls, prostitution, street hookers, brothels, red-light districts, sex shops, prostitutes, erotic massage parlors, strip clubs and escorts in Wellington, New Zealand.

Wellington's central business district viewed from Mount Victoria

(Te Whanganui a Tara in Māori) is the capital city of New Zealand and second largest city. The Windy City is on the foreshore of Wellington Harbour and ringed by hills, providing the scenic home of many of New Zealand's national arts and cultural attractions.

Sex Scene and Prostitution

Prostitution (sex work), brothel keeping, living off the proceeds of someone else's prostitution, and street solicitation are decriminalised in New Zealand. Coercion of sex workers is illegal.

The New Zealand Prostitutes' Collective

which began in 1987, for the rights, health, and well being of all sex workers in New Zealand. It is run by and for sex workers and holds a contract with the Ministry of Health for HIV prevention - which has been extremely successful in New Zealand.

Red Light Districts

Wellington has no Red Light District as such. Vivian Street and Marion street are the main places to find street based sex workers and some people consider these areas as red-light districts.

Prostitutes and Sex Workers

There are plenty of brothels, erotic massage parlors, independent escorts and street whores in Wellington. Prices do vary a lot and cheapest sex can be found from the streets.

Street Hookers

Vivian Street and Marion street are the main places to find street based sex workers in Wellington - the majority of which are transsexual women who work from Marion street. Some of the streetwalkers can be also found from Cuba Street and they are quite attractive.

Strip Clubs & Lap Dance

Here is a list of strip clubs in Wellington:

  • Liks Strip Bar • 147 Vivian St • (04) 384 5761
  • Mermaid • 73 Courtenay Place • (04) 385 0552
  • Santa Fe Dream Girls • 37 Dixon St • (04) 385 9491
  • Calendar Girls Gentlemen's Club, 13 Dixon St, Te Aro, tel.: +64 4-974 5588
  • Dreamgirls F**k Yeh, 37 Dixon St, Te Aro, tel.: +64 27 588 3875


There are brothels in the main centre of Wellington. There are around 20 brothels in Wellington and the surrounding Hutt Valley and Kapiti coast areas, including adult massage venues and very small businesses, however independent (private) sex workers make up over 40% of all sex workers in New Zealand. Brothels and strip clubs are concentrated around Karangahape Road and Fort Street.

Erotic Massage Parlors

Most brothels in Wellington also offer erotic massage services and many independent escort also offer Happy Ending massage.

Where to find Wellington Massage Parlors:

  • Total Relax, 19 Arthur St, Te Aro, Wellington, New Zealand +64 4-589 8955
  • Intimate Touch, Wellington, New Zealand +64 210 754 348
  • Funhouse, Te Aro, New Zealand +64 27 251 7511
  • CJ's Massage & Spa, 176 Victoria Street, Te Aro, New Zealand +64 4-385 3128
  • Suite Pleasures Wellington - Massage Services A boutique sensual massage and therapeutic massage agency on Boulcott Street in the middle of Wellington's CBD. Great girls who are fully trained massage therapists who will take you to a new level of relaxation with that knock out ending for you. Call Kay on +64 22 5360 250.

Live Sex Cams

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Dating in Wellington can be a bit tricky due to cultural differences, so your best bet is to sign up for a dating site before your trip so you can meet a few locals ahead of time. AdultFriendFinder.com lets you meet local members in Wellington and get to know them on a personal basis before you arrive. Take advantage of site features like live chat and member to member webcams so you can begin flirting before arranging a face-to-face meeting. Since your time in Wellington may be limited, get to know each other’s desires beforehand, so that when you meet you can start having some real fun.

How to find Sugar Babies & Sugar Daddies

If you are looking for an alternative to escorts in Wellington with a girl who doesn’t charge by the hour, sugar dating is the ideal solution. There are thousands of beautiful young women at SecretBenefits.com willing to do anything for a man who will help them pay their bills.

Often referred to as the “Tinder for Older Guys”, SecretBenefits matches hot young women interested in pampering older gentlemen. You don’t have to be a millionaire at SecretBenefits.com, you just need to be a respectful gentleman who knows how to treat a woman.

Swinger Clubs and BDSM

ALT.com is the best place for local singles, swingers, and couples in the BDSM community to connect with those interested in submissive sex, power exchange, locating persons for new slave roles, erotic BDSM, bondage & fetish sex, as well as live sex dates. Find thousands of play partners for whatever your fetish may be; bondage, foot, cockold, spankings, role-play, electric or water play, sadism and masochism. So whether you have the desire to explore your unrealized fetish fantasies, or you are extremely experienced and would love to train someone new, ALT.com is a community designed for people with like-minded interests to find and connect with each other. You can find swinger clubs operating in Wellington online. Usually the entrance is free for women while men have to pay a fee.

Transsexuals / Shemales

Finding someone for transsexual dating when you’re on the road can be a bit tricky, so your best bet is to sign up for a dating site before you go so you can find locals ahead of time. TSdates.com is a dating site designed to help you find exactly what you are looking for in your hookup in Wellington. Take advantage of site features like live chat and member to member webcams so you can begin flirting before arranging a face-to-face meeting. With over 40 million members, and thousands of transsexual members around the world, TSdates.com is the world’s largest site of sex-minded friends for discreet encounters and will help you find your next transsexual play partner.

  • Suite Pleasures, also have Transgirls Escorts on their website and are located on Boulcott Street in the middle of Wellington's CBD. They note they will do their upmost to provide you with the best experience possible. Suite Pleasures are always hiring transgirls and provide free advertising and a great supportive upmarket working environment. Clients give constant compliments on how clean and professional the establishment is. Also of note as they are located in a commercial building your total discretion will be upheld. Please call Kay on 022 5360 250 or visit to find the latest transgirls available for your pleasure.

Where can I find shemales in Wellington? You can watch transsexual live sex shows in Wellington as long as you are connected to internet. Check Now: Tranny Live Sex Video Chat

Many transgender and transsexual escorts in Wellington have online ads and seek customers that way. There are also transsexual street prostitutes on Marion street and they are much cheaper than the online t-girl escorts. Quality of the street level trannies is also much lower.

Wellington CD/TV/TG Group is a social group for the connection of practitioners and the dissemination of information. For any interested in any cross dressing activities for what ever reason and to any extent.

Gay and Lesbian

Gay modeling in internet is getting more popular all the time and it's a big market alongside with gay porn. You can watch gay live sex also in Wellington as long as you are connected to internet. Check it out: Gay Live Sex Video Chat

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people have the same legal rights as other people in New Zealand.

Gay Friendly Bars

  • S&M's, 176 Cuba Street, Wellington, NZ - Good gay bar.
  • Bats, 60 Dixon Street, Wellington, NZ - Comedy Club
  • Rush Bar, 5 Wigan Street, Wellington City, NZ
  • Motel, Forresters Lane, Wellington, NZ
  • Hawthorn Lounge, 82 Tory Street, Wellington, NZ - Good looking young guys.

Gay Saunas and Bathhouses

  • Steamworx, 5 Wigan Street, Wellington City, NZ
  • Checkmate, 15 Tory Street, Wellington, NZ
  • Emperor's Bathhouse (CLOSED), 5 Wigan Street, Wellington, NZ

Gay Cruising Areas:

  • Lyall Bay toilets, Wellington
  • Paramata Toilets, Wellington
  • BNZ foodcourt toilets, Wellington
  • Onepoto toilets, Wellington
  • Berhampore Public Toilets, Wellington
  • Victoria University Kirk Building first floor toilets, Wellington


The basic form of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline/ Dominance & Submission/ Sado-Masochism) is all about the erotic and sexual acts and mind-sets of dominating and relinquishing control.

In the past few years BDSM has got a pretty bad reputation, but the basic principles can be extremely liberating and in the long run if you engage with it, turn you on in a way that you would never even have thought about. The fact that the standard media representation of BDSM is of something seedy and weird and sometimes make it feel like a taboo.

"But if girl take the reins it can actually increase their sexual confidence and sense of agency, while giving men a break from having to be 'on top', psychologically as well as literally which is the standard dynamic for most lovers. The trick is to have an open mind to sexuality, obviously anything which causes harm to your loved one or yourself is not good, but we're all humans and exploring the parts that make us a little different is what can make a hugely beneficial relationship.

There are couple very good dominatrix escorts working in Wellington, example Mistress Matrix. There are also many BDSM and sexual fetish groups in Wellington that gather together every month.

Wellington BDSM Groups

  • The Amazing BDSM Supper Club - Wellington based kinksters who get together once a month or so for banquets, gallery exhibits, book readings, wine-tours, fairs, or anything else we choose to do, both kink and non-kink related.
  • Frustrated Submissives of Wellington New Zealand - Please join the group if you are male or female, sub or Dom(me), near Wellington, not near Wellington, interested in a network of like minded respectful people being able to explore their interests, passions and tendencies with confidence.
  • KapitiBDSM - Yahoo - For lifestyle and kinky people for the northern Wellington residents and north to Kapiti and beyond; will have “innovative munches” with your input
  • Kinky Wellington - Non-affiliated group; for members to post about upcoming events, to ask kinky questions, or just to chat about kinky and non-kinky things.
  • TES Wellington - The Endorphin Society Social & educational group for those 18 years and older who are interested in any aspect of BDSM/fetish. Welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations.
  • Wellington – New Zealand Pro Dommes - Very discreet, fully equipped dungeon and provide sessions ranging from very light tie and tease to severe corporal punishment, anal play and much more. All newcomers welcome.


  • Wellington Swingers Club - One and only official swingers club in the lower North Island. Our premises are based in Upper Hutt. Event Nights are normally open from 7pm to 1.30am (bar closes at 1am) unless stated otherwise. Contact first by phone 04 528 3506 or 027 5283 506. Web:

Sexual Services for Women

There are couple good looking male escorts who advertise online and work in Wellington.

One place to go look for young male massuers is Suite Pleasures. They have a range of young men who are happy to provide hot erotic massages for women. Check out you might find something you really like.

Sex Shops and Adult Stores

If you don’t feel like visiting or cannot find any local sex shops in Wellington, you can easily order adult products from Online Sex Shop.

Most adult shops in Wellington have a good variety of sex toys, porn movies, erotic clothing and condoms. Some of the sex shops also have an adult cinema attached to them. You can buy Viagra and other potency pills from the Pharmacies, but you need a prescription for them.

  • Adult Shoppe, 251 Cuba Street, Wellington (04) 384 5044
  • D.vice Designer Sex Gear Shop, Wellington (04) 384 1505
  • The Cage, 44 Te Roto Drive, Paraparaumu Beach Paraparaumu, Wellington (04) 902 5432
  • The Exclusive Shop, cnr Vivian & Cuba St, Wellington (04) 384 3835
  • Eff-jays Adult Shop, 143 Cuba Street, Wellington (04) 384 9287
  • Janez, 25 Forest Road, Upper Hutt, Upper Hutt (04) 972 7896
  • Leatherxtreme, Wellington (04) 384 2774
  • The Cage, 111 Vivian Street, Wellington (04) 385 6369
  • Cine Bleu Adult Cinema & Shop, 39 Dixon Street, Wellington (04) 384 6711
  • The Venus Shop, Wellington (04) 568 2644
  • D.vice, Dixon Street, Te Aro, Wellington (04) 380 0120

Escort Services & Agencies

Indoor sex workers advertise on a variety of online listing sites and in local newspapers.

  • Suite Pleasures Wellington Escorts

A boutique escort agency on Boulcott Street in the middle of Wellington's CBD. Great girls for great sex. Call Kay on 022 5360 250 you wont be disappointed.


Most hotels in Wellington are fine if you bring an escort to your room. How ever if you keep bringing different looking girls back and forth to your room, it is more recommended to rent apartment.

Stay Safe

There is a strong culture of sex workers in New Zealand using condoms for sex, including oral sex. The law also says that all practisable steps must be taken to use condoms, with both the sex worker and the client liable for prosecution if condom use is not adhered to. In case of emergency you should contact police by calling 111.

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